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Etiquette Everyday ~ Holiday Etiquette

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Holiday Tipping Guidelines

Updated for 2007

The holiday season is the traditional time to say “thank you” and “I appreciate the work you do” to those who have provided service to you throughout the year. Don’t forget that one of the best ways to express your appreciation is a hand-written note, which should accompany any holiday tip.

Whether and how much to tip varies widely, depending on:

If you regularly tip at the time of service, you may forgo or give a more modest holiday tip. Try to include your child in gift decisions for teachers, day care providers, nannies, and babysitters.

Every situation is different, so let common sense, specific circumstances, and holiday spirit be your guides. The tip amounts in this chart are merely guidelines. What to give is always an individual decision.

Au pair

A gift from your family (or one-week’s pay), plus a small gift from your child

Babysitter, regular

One evening’s pay, plus a small gift from your child

Barber

Cost of one haircut or a gift

Beauty salon staff

The cost of one salon visit, split among the staff

Child’s teacher

Check your school’s policy first, as gift giving may be prohibited. If allowed, then give a gift that is a token of appreciation from your child, not cash. Possibilities: a homemade gift made by your child, a book or a picture frame. Or, consider participating in a joint gift from the class as a whole. Possibilities: a gift certificate to a restaurant or bookstore.

Day care providers

$25 to $70 each, plus a small gift from your child for the providers who give direct care to your child(ren)

Dog walker

One week’s pay or a gift

Fitness trainer, personal

Up to the cost of one session

Garage attendants

$10 to $30 each

Home health employees

A gift, but check with the agency first, as most agencies have a no gifts or no tips policy. If this is the case, consider giving a donation to the agency.

Housekeeper/cleaner

Up to one week’s pay or a gift

Letter carriers

U.S. government regulations permit carriers to accept gifts worth up to $20 per occasion, not cash

Live-in help (Nanny, Housekeeper, Cook, Butler)

One week’s to one month’s salary based on tenure and customs in your area, plus a personal gift

Massage therapist

Up to one session’s fee or a gift

Newspaper deliverer

$10 to $30

Nurse, private

A gift, not cash

Nursing home employees

A gift, not cash, but check the company policy first. Consider giving a gift that could be enjoyed by or shared among the floor staff: flowers, chocolates or food items.

Package deliverer

A small gift if you receive deliveries regularly; most delivery companies discourage or prohibit cash gifts

Personal caregiver

Up to one week’s salary or a small gift

Pet Groomer

If the same person grooms your pet all year, up to one session’s fee or a gift

Pool cleaner

Cost of one cleaning, to be split among crew

Residential building personnel: Check with your building association first to see if there is a holiday fund that is shared among all the building personnel

Superintendent

$20 to $80

Doorman

$15 to $80; $15 or more each, for multiple doormen

Elevator operator

$15 to $40

Handyman

$15 to $40

Trash/recycling collectors

$10 to $30 each (for private service); for municipal service, check local regulations

Yard and garden worker

$20 to $50

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