Etiquette Everyday ~ Special Occasions
Essential
Manners for Men on Valentine’s Day:
Author Peter Post Advises Men Not to Blow It This Year
Valentine’s Day can be deadly for
men. Handled well, spoils to the victor. Handled poorly, welcome
to the dog house.
“Whether you’ve been married
to the same woman for 25 years or you’ve just started dating,
here is rule number one on Valentine’s Day: It’s all
about her, not you. The smart man plans ahead,”
says Post. Today. Now. Hurry up!
Peter Post’s top Valentine’s
Day tips:
- If you can’t cook, make
reservations. The sooner the better.
The best and most popular restaurants will book up well in advance.
Don’t forget to arrange for a babysitter too.
- Mind your table manners.
Nothing will ruin your evening faster than chewing with your
mouth open or holding your fork like a medieval weapon. Plus,
impress her with finesse—hold the door, pull out her chair,
be prepared to order the right wine and initiate titillating
dinner conversation.
- Go get the card now!
Don’t wait till the last minute when the selection includes
only the ridiculous and most mushy sentiments.
- Special and meaningful doesn’t
have to mean expensive.
If you’re on a tight budget, plan accordingly. Cook a
romantic dinner at home. Candles and chocolates are within most
budgets and can set the tone for a romantic evening. Shower
her with love notes or give her a back rub.
- Don’t believe the hype.
Even if you spouse or significant other doesn’t buy into
the V-Day propaganda, use it as a chance to acknowledge how
much you appreciate having her in your life.
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