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How Do I RSVP?

No matter how you receive an invitation, it's critical to let your host know if you'll be accepting...or not.

That's right, except for a "regrets only" it's just as important to let your host know if you can't attend as it is to let him know that you can. Here are some typical ways invitations are extended and how to RSVP.

 

Mailed invitation with a phone number...

Call and make sure to give your response in person- an answering machine can be unreliable.

..."texts welcome!"

Nice option! Go ahead and text your reply.

E-mailed invitation

Hit the REPLY button

E-vite®

Follow the directions to reply and don't stress out over trumping another guest's witty response. If you opt for "Maybe," make sure you follow up with your final answer.

Phoned invitation

You can respond right away, or if you prefer not to be put on the spot, say, "Let me check my calendar and get right back to you." Just be sure you do exactly that!

Mailed invitation with a response card

Fill in the card and return it in the enclosed envelope. Reply right away or by the date indicated.

Mailed invitation with RSVP and no response card

Send a prompt handwritten reply to the host at the address on the envelope.

Regrets only

You only need to reply if you can't go. If your host doesn't hear from you, he's expecting you to be there.