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As online communities have grown, competitive and recreational gaming has moved online as well, expanding opportunities to compete any time with like-minded players anywhere in the world.  Gaming communities are very similar to other public competitive environments--youth athletic events, professional sports, the chess club, or even a casino.  The rules of good conduct apply to the virtual arena as well.

  • As always in a public space, watch that your conduct is in line with the norms of your community.
  • Rules of good sportsmanship apply.  Be a good winner and a good loser.
  • Emotion can run high in competitive environments.  Remember to keep your emotions in check and think before you post.
  • Good-natured trash talking, cheering, and even some jeering can be okay if they're in line with good sportsmanship and the character of the site.
  • Be a responsible teammate and player.  Keep appointments, communicate clearly, and treat the group facilities with respect and consideration.

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When you're playing for real money the rules of etiquette apply even more.  The basics of gambling etiquette apply equally online:

  • Respect yourself: Don't risk what you can't afford to lose.  The game should be fun, but not if it puts your budget basics in jeopardy.
  • Is it legal?  This applies not only to where the game originates, but where you're playing from as well.  Winnings are reportable and taxable.
  • Check out the rules on your site.  Many sites have different versions of the same game.
  • Keep up.  Unless it's a chess game and you and your opponent have agreed to a week between moves, play should be timely. 
  • Keep it polite.  Don't vent when you lose.  Remember, you're not playing against bots--your opponents are real people, too.