Q. My fiancé says we are required to invite all out-of-town guests to the rehearsal dinner. I say we’re not. Who is right?
A. The guest list for the rehearsal dinner traditionally consists of the bride and groom, all attendants and their spouses or partners, the couple’s immediate families (brothers, sisters, grandparents) and the officiant and spouse. It is an intimate affair for the wedding party and immediate family and not a repeat of the guest list for the reception. It is a nice gesture to include out-of-towners if your budget allows, but it is by no means a must. Discuss the situation with your fiancé. Perhaps the guests who are coming from a distance can meet up informally at a nearby restaurant.
